From
USN&WR's
|
What
to expect from a high school counselor |
Insight,
support, and one-on-one advising
By
Beth Brophy
The
quality of counseling about college options in American secondary schools ranges
from wonderful to woeful. At its best, counseling is personal and detailed. At
many public high schools, counselors spend as much time dealing with
disciplinary problems as they do giving advice. Many counselors have too much
work–and too little knowledge–to guide students adequately through the
admissions maze. Still, counseling can be very good.
Here
is what students and their families should expect:
One-on-one advising.
Involved counselors meet with each student for a conference at least once in
junior year and again in senior year. Parents should be invited, too. Topics
often include: the student's academic strengths and weaknesses, nonacademic
interests, test scores, and whether he or she should take a prep class to
improve the scores. After taking the measure of the student, the counselor might
suggest some colleges to consider. The advice should be viewed as helpful but
not complete: Most counselors know more about regional schools than those in
other parts of the country.
Help developing a plan and timetable.
Many counselors believe their job is not to tell students where to apply but to
advise them how to go about the process. Doing the legwork for students,
counselors say, won't teach them the survival skills they need for college. Good
counselors point students toward books and online resources they might not know
about, to use in their own legwork.
Historical perspective.
Generally, high schools keep lists of where previous students have and haven't
been accepted. Schools with more-sophisticated programs also maintain a database
on the records of students who were accepted and rejected at various colleges.
Getting organized feedback from graduates of the high school about what they
like and dislike about their colleges, and about how prepared they felt
academically, is also useful to prospective applicants.
Vigilance.
Every year, many qualified seniors are put on waiting lists by their
first-choice college. A counselor can call a college to glean a student's
prospects of being chosen from the list and to let the college know if a student
really wants to go there. If the outlook is dim for a student, the counselor can
provide guidance about alternatives.
Counselors
agree that students are entitled to work with an adviser with whom they feel
comfortable. If the personal chemistry is bad between student and adviser and
the school has other counselors, ask for a change, advises Audrey Hill,
president of the National Association for College Admission Counseling. Another
option is hiring an independent counselor, who typically charges between $500
and $1,500 to do everything from helping students develop a list of colleges to
editing application essays. Colleges tend to view private counselors as agents,
not as independent evaluators. But many parents are willing to pay for extra
advice, in part because it provides a sense of security. Sometimes, guidance
counselors will refer students to private consultants if they think special help
is warranted (for example, when a family has been through a bitter divorce and
the parents don't speak).
Even the most elaborate college counseling does not guarantee success. A senior who fails to apply to her safety school may wind up without a college acceptance. This is a painful lesson, showing that ultimately it's the student who has to take responsibility for applying to college.